When we talk it's fine and almost like it was... which is hard enough because I can't believe her feelings have changed so drastically. We spoke today about her job and friends and got along well. It makes me realize what I'm losing.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)