I couldn't get to you through DB Fans and I wasn't about to become a fan So I found a profile with same two words and messages it. I couldn't message the one through DB Fans but I could have friend ed it.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
I cant message the one w/o picture...I did send to the other one. Someone is wondering what kind wacko I am
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
I could really use some help thinking about how to respond to this. I don't think I should wait to long. Seems disrespectful.
RSF,
I have given some thought and consideration what to you have said and I do not agree. I have spent a lot of time talking to you about my feelings and beliefs about our relationship. I have spent hours going over and over the same thing. I have been honest and direct and have walked away from conversations feeling like we had an understanding only to find that you came away with a different conclusion. I don't know how to be more honest or direct.. I am tired and feel beat up by all of this. I understand this has been hard for you...I really do understand that. Having said that, it's not right the way things have happened. I haven't done anything wrong. You left me and you left this marriage in October. That's how I have operated and what I believe. I didn't want any of this but I am a survivor and have pulled myself together and moved forward with my life. The distress and unhappiness that you have seen over the past month or two is because I'm being forced to be something I'm not. I'm living a dual life, one married and one single. I'm living incongruent to my beliefs and it is causing me a great deal of unhappiness and distress. I cannot continue on this path. It's not right for me or for you. You are right when you said on the phone that it needs to end. It does. It can't continue on like this. It is ruining any possibility of us being friends and being the best parents possible. I will get the paperwork from the attorney and either give it to you in person or mail it. You will need to review the paperwork and make comments/suggestions/concerns about the content. I mentioned before that I did not have all the information so what she did is use a standard dissolution format and put in the information that i did have into the document. If you want to hire an attorney for yourself that's fine. You can also discuss with her. There is no additional fees for the document to be edited. I hope that we can move on to the next stage of things in a respectful manner. We are parents and are going to have to have some type of relationship in order to parent effectively. I want to be on good terms with you and want you to move forward and be happy.
W
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
So I found a profile with same two words and messages it. I couldn't message the one through DB Fans but I could have friend ed it.