H picked up DD tonight bc I had to work. He was acting like an ass - just had a bad attitude. And I did voice my annoyance at coming home and finding our DD in a pull up for the 2nd day in a row - esp. after I emailed him to not put her in pulls ups again. ...She's FINALLY potty trained (with no help from him) and she whines to him and he gives her anything she wants - a pull up, candy, juice, TV time, snacks. It's so frustrating for me. He pops in a few days per week and gives her anything she wants. Then, I'm the one that always says no to the things listed above (candy, juice, etc...). It's like he knows he doesn't came around enough so he wants to make her happy - um hello...not saying no and giving her whatever she wants doesn't help anything!!!! Makes me look like the mean mom that always says no.
And I guess he thought he would be funny tonight and he wrote all over her arms with markers - just to annoy me I guess. Yes, the markers are washable, but still. That was just stupid and he knew I was giving her a bath so it's like he thought oh well -Courtney can deal with it.
Lastly, when I found out he intentionally tried to deceive me last weekend, I was fed up. I packed up the rest of his things and put them in trash bags in our garage. Well...he took 2 of the bags tonight. That made me sad. IDK...I packed it, but it still hurts. But, I am trying to let him know (by my actions and not my words) that I am done playing his games and waiting for him to decide if I'm good enough - I will not let him treat me badly...so @ this point that just involoves having as little interaction with him as possible...how sad.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
