I have decided to do special things for myself more and more lately. There was a time, when H didn't come home after work much so I would not eat. Now I make myself special dinners all the time and if H is home he can partake. Since I no longer buy H clothes or other things I know he would like, I spend the money on me! I have learned to spoil myself rotten through all this. Why not, he isn't doing it!
Treat yourself girl! You deserve it !!
I will be coming upon a year next month. I too thought this would have been over with eleven months ago! The question that keeps coming up for me is... Would he have done this for me? I don't think so. He would have thrown me out that day!