Hope and heartache

[Kemper]

At some level you were showing compassion for the situation and trying to be a “friend”.

I have/had the same issue with always wondering who/what/where. You need to stop that and focus on yourself. You can’t change anything your W does nor can you try to control it. DO NOT focus on anything negative. The comment about “hoping she slept on the couch of a friend from work she went with”. What if she got so drunk that she made it to her car and made the right decision not to drive, what if she just slept in the car? There are a million ways you can spin it in your head but you can’t focus on the negative.