Its amazing how many people are going through this. I have a WAW at the moment too, it only happened 2 weeks ago, but she is already determined to move on. I have no proof at this stage of an EA or PA.. so is hard to gauge where she is coming from. I have been only contacting her regarding the kids and nothing else since she dropped the bomb... I pleaded, cried all of that stuff.... untill I read the advice on here.. I have turned it around and I can tell she is shocked the way I handled it. I think she thought I was going to run a mile and get on a bender.. The first week seemed easier than the first as that hope starts to dwindle... but it is like the above poster said a long road... show the changes and she will notice, but it is only them that will decide to come back in the end. No amount of talking or reasoning on your part to her will help.. Sorry about your sitch... I am in the early stages myself.. Take care and vent on here.. its the best place.


M - 30
WAW - 29
D - 8
S - 5
BOMB - 09/12/09

My Situation - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1842559#Post1842559