Bewildered

[KiwiMan]

Yeah, thanks for your replies. I will start posting more on other peoples threads too.

Deep - Yeah, Its hard to get the thought that there is someone else out of my head. All of her friends and family have said there isn't and she isn't interested at the moment.

BUT - The biggest sign to me is like what you said. She is willing to just give up on the marriage without trying any other methods of help. Leaving Kids, 10 years together behind without trying external help.... must have a plan of what she is doing...

Argh..... There are no signs at all however, and I have been checking. The only way to know for sure would be to tap her mobile or check text messages, but thats a bit hard when she doesn't live with me!