My W and I are in the pre-liminary stages of divorce. As part of this, we are doing most of the work ourselves (parenting plan, settlement, etc) to help us avoid hurt feeliings and to minimize costs. I have been working on refinancing the house, which is a big and costly step, so I called her today to make sure this is what she wants to do. After talking awhile, she mentioned she had doubts about the divorce, but did not know how to act on those doubts. She also mentioned she hated what the family has become and that she missed me. She actually said she likes missing me...not sure what the hell that means.
I told her if there are doubts about the divorce then we should at least explore what that means and if anything can be done to stop what has become a broken family. She is supposed to call me tonight so we can further discuss this. I am guessing she will not be willing to do to much so I am trying to keep my expectations low. In any case, I could use some advice on how to deal with this situation....and fast. Thanks.
