So I'm wrong on nearly every count.

So riddle me this batman (breakaway),
seriously, you sound as perfect as it gets,
why is it that husband does not like you because that is the picture you paint for all of us.

By your own account, you are attractive (physically) and that's a primary attraction factor for men - you got that one taken care of.

You seem to value life and all the little bits that make it up, you are appreciative & attentive, you sound educated & intelligent, you appear to have more than just a clue about things.

You seem to have so much going for you yet.... your husband doesn't seem to be that great towards you (and again that's by your account, I can only gauge the situation based on what info you provide us).

Why doesn't your husband appreciate you?
Why isn't he more caring & loving towards you?
What is it that you do that does not turn his crank so to speak? Why would your husband say that you do everything wrong & you are crazy?

I know I'm hijacking your thread Tristan but some of this may prove relevant to your own situation.