I'm sorry that your husband is not participating in the manner you wish. Give it some more time...be patient. Look for "small improvements" and you keep doing the work. I hope he changes. If he doesn't, what is your gameplan?
Best wishes, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009