John are you a meteorologist? Who knew? Or do you do the other kind of forecasts?
K I haven't posted much as I have selfishly been absorbed by my own situation.
It is hard to say to you what you should do. In my case when H said he wanted to try again there was that 'vibe' that things were not right. My little voice told me it wasn't going to happen, he didn't have it in him....
Listen to your little voice. From over here it sounds like your H understands things now in a way he didn't or wouldn't understand them before. That is essential if you are going to rebuild. You can't use the old tools and blueprints or you will get the old result, again.
But with new perspective, new desire, new motivation, and new commitment? Who knows what you could build?
So I guess I am saying to listen to your own instincts on whether it is worth it. And know, as I have read here before, know whether you could handle it if it didn't work out...
I am wishing the best for you and yours. And sorry about those darn lice!!
Or do you do the other kind of forecasts?
