Thanks for all the great responses! I've been off for a few days, busy yes, and also mulling a lot of things over. I have a new thread, started today: DBing as a lifestyle
Totite, thanks for the info - I'm not overweight, but at 6'1" I'm still a big guy, so the king sounds nice, I must admit. I do get bad, bad headaches some of the time; when I get them, I wake up with them, and they last most of the day. If they're associated with snoring in some way (and W does say that I stop breathing sometimes) then I bet I'd feel a lot better most days. I'm planning to see the doctor this week - good reminder to make the call!
Karen - thanks for the PMA boost! You've been a rock for me through this journey, and I appreciate that.
Optimist - not a bad idea. W has actually suggested that we do one of these things together, and at the time I had a sort of "yeah, right" kind of reaction. My session was pretty nice, I've got to admit, so maybe I should do away with this "real men don't get pampered" thing and go have some fun with my W. Cause I do feel a little strange about it all - but I guess this whole thing is about challanging ourselves, isn't it? Yeah - I CHALLANGE myself to go get a massage.
