I am actually with Dan on one thing: No more R talk.
(Funny isn't that practically paragraph ONE of MWD's book? )
I don't mean it like that, though. Not in terms of trying to scheme or whatever to get my H back.
I am just not going there anymore.
I got to thinking, you guys are right. We really aren't anywhere we haven't been dozens of times in between Dan showing up 'sniffing around' like he wants to reconcile.
And every time he shows interest like that, I wind up in these R talks. And he gets frustrated and runs again.
No more. R. Talks. Period.
I will give him the papers as soon as I have them. I was like a kid waiting for a birthday card with money, I went to my mailbox 5 times today. Gave up at 3:30 and went to bed, mail wasn't here yet so they could be in my mail now.
No more discussion. No how sad he is, how the kids will feel, etc. No. More.
Re. our divorce, striking while the iron is hot is warranted. He said in his email that he will not seek legal representation and all that he has is mine if I want it. I don't want it all. He can keep the cows/tractor/trailers. I will just take a nice pile of cash up front, thankyouverymuch, and the same monthly $$ I have been getting, even though it is higher than the state ordered monthly amount.
You guys are right, time to walk forward down this path and see where I wind up...
Oh, and no matter what promises Lucy makes, Charlie Brown is NOT going to try to kick the football!!!!
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