Thank you for checking in on me. I just haven't been on the boards lately. I did get a phone call last night from my ex's best friend, this is very unusual for him to call me & talk about someone, especially his best friend. Here are some things he said about her:
His friend said that she works him, she manipulates everything. Said she is passive aggressive. He can’t have friends or go out bowling or anything because she will pout & give him a sob story so he won’t leave her. It’s all about “poor me” & her being left out, she pouts & pretends she is all hurt & upset all the time so she can get him to do whatever she wants him to do.
She told them that she had gotten into my face book account & told them that I said I would get ex back. I didn’t say that so that is a lie, but he also said that he knew she lied about everything all the time.
She made it seem like that it was a battle between him choosing his friend or her & ex said he was tired of being in the middle, but according to friend that wasn't the case b/c they were never around them. He told my ex what he thought of her.
Friend said she is really getting fat, she is very insecure, but she totally controls ex. Said ex doesn’t have a mind anymore.
She is very lazy, will not work or do anything. Ex asked her to take the dog out & she started saying something about did he want his wife walking around a strange place, so ex had to take the dog out.
She was bankrupt when they married, they both made good money when they were in the states but they couldn't make ends meet.
Friend said he had never met anyone like her. She will tell ex anything & everything to work it like she wants & he is believing her. Said ex is lost, no mind, no input no nothing, she is in total control. He doesn’t know what she has done to him to make him like this, he did say it was some major brainwashing.
Said she is very selfish – doesn’t really care about ex just about the money & now he has a good job that she got him. She will not work, never planned to.
Friend told ex that he didn’t even know him anymore, he also told ex what he thought about her.
Said she is very interested in me & what I’m emailing, she is still trying to get into my account the last he knew anything about. Said she is the most insecure, manipulative, passive aggressive, shallow, transparent, mean person he has ever met in his life. He is very upset about his friendship being over with ex.
Ok, that’s all I can think of right now that he told me but I thought you would like to know what I heard. I was shocked that he even called me, that is not him. He just stays out of everything & would not normally go & talk about anyone, especially his best friend.
He is really mixed up in something that is really way out there!!! I just pray for him, that is all I can do.
