MJ, That is hilarious!! MLCers really do have the most crazy way of "KEEPING" and SHOWING "control". He is so OUT of control that the only thing he can control is his dish, knife, and fork. Your'e right...these are the moments, I too, feel so sad for my husband's state of mind. It feels like an illness to me, know what I mean? Hope you are having a good day.


Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09