In the meantime, as Kat says, DOCUMENT! You never answered my question of if you called to make sure they were okay afterward. I'd hate promote a negative feeling, but my X as I said did the same, just to gage my reaction. The more times I came home to no kids and threw my hands up in the air and said 'what can I do about it' the more times X and her snake L sat in court and said, hey, "he didn't even care how his kids were for the time they were away".... watch your butt, it's a nasty, dirty, low down game when it comes to custody.
No, I didn't. He has his cell phone I can call them with, and I tend not to, b/c I hate to talk with him so much. He's so unpleasant. I got them this afternoon and they're fine though.
I've had them 5-7 days a week through this so I also think I don't need/want to intrude on their time together. Whereas if the situations were reversed and he had them 5-7 nights a week, I would be calling them frequently. He never does call them though, so doubt he would bring that up.
I just sent a great email, I think. I sent: I did confirm with D9 that she prefers to have the school lunches rather than bringing one. I think you are feeling like you shouldn't pay for her lunches those days when I have her. I can totally understand that. I'm fine with us setting things up that way. I just gave you $24 worth of monthly medication that you give her on your days with her. It might be the fastest/easiest way to reimburse me by putting it directly into her lunch account each month esp. since I don't have all the info on it and login and all that. I figure $24 should cover her lunches each month when she's with me. Thanks!
