Whaaaaaaaat? The DBing stuff IS validating. When someone tells you they are hurt and want to be left alone...validating is saying ok and giving them what they ask for. You can't blame this on anyone. The pain and pressure she is describing has come from you. You are just giving OM the edge.
All I'm saying is I did effing best that I could. I didn't know what I was doing. OK?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
