Somebody on here went and said fully half the couples there were already D'd and others were separated. It's a Communication weekend moreso than a marriage weekend as far as I can tell.
(I haven't been, mind you, just reporting what I've read.)
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
