AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
I'm still ruminating over what my next step will be for me...school, work, locale etc.
What a incredible opportunity for you.
"you do the world no good by living small."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
What? Someone who wont leave you alone but insists that they don't want you and are prancing around with other people??
Naaa, you are getting straight up and honest communication. You have way more to work with than you know. You just need to get a grip.
I see hints of positive in your sitch, maybe I'm naive.
I have honest communication from a W moving 180 degrees away from me...in the opposite direction with not a hint that I have a chance AND I get to remind myself everyday that's all my fault.
maybe the grass is always greener.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
I have honest communication from a W moving 180 degrees away from me...in the opposite direction with not a hint that I have a chance AND I get to remind myself everyday that's all my fault.
This makes me want to bang my head against a wall but ok.
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I see hints of positive in your sitch, maybe I'm naive.
Ya, hints. I think there's more hope in yours because she's being straightforward so you can actually meet her needs right now (even though you don't like it), plus, you are working on you.
In my sitch we are both still throwing darts at moving targets.
In my sitch we are both still throwing darts at moving targets.
Looks straight forward from where I stand. The hints mean that he's paying attention, he's doing all kinds of stupid sh*t along the way, granted, but he's eyeing the bait not swimming in the other direction. Now you go get a place, go back to school or work...doesn't even matter which...just make a solid, confident decision, keep following through and he'll be all over it...then you decide. Thats the play I'd call....just sayin.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
