First I want to applaude you. Great job on your self discovery and efforts to that end. Also amazing at realizing things about her and how she feels appreciated.
DBing 101.
Make changes, and watch the reaction.
If you want to ask, figure out the 'best' way and ask...gauge the response.
You can even set it up before hand. "I am not looking to 'push' you, but I am wondering how your day was?"
In piercing I am of the belief that you have to have relationship talks...as long as you both are on the same path. Word of advice...not every day...not everytime you need reassurance, your reassurance should be from her consistancy of her actions...every now and then. Basically to evaluate where you both are.
If you're both on the same page, while she might not enjoy this, she should be willing.
Every now and then, I look up at my wife and ask, "Am I doing right by you?" I am doing my best so that her only response will be her smile and a whispered "yes".
Locked phone...sorry to say...not the best sign.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
