Bitterness, anger, resentment seem to be flowing from you today. Understandable.
But you need to let it go at some point. You had hope for a reason. 3 years seems to be the breaking point on this site. I'm not sure why that is.
You have fought hard for 3 years and it hasn't materialized like you had hoped it would yet. This was another set back.
3 years of anguish. Are you really throwing in the towel after 3 years of fighting for this? Look how far you have come along. It seemed that you were really close and then it fell apart again for who knows what reason. It is your choice. But I would give it more time. Yes, more time. Some marriages require more than 3 years to be restored and it seemed like there was progress being made. I wouldn't count it as over because of this setback.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
