@ C-Bart - did you mean me? The "DUH" meant that her H is an idiot if he doesn't know why she won't tell him what she really feels.

A) She does tell him. Maybe not all the time, but she does.

B) And when she does, he opens up the smackdown on her.

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137