I am not the kind of person that would cheat on him for revenge. Believe me. I am nothing like that.
I just wanted to clarify that I was not saying that you would choose to have an affair at some point.
When I said that one or both of you would fall back in the future, I meant that if you move too quickly, you may hold on to your hurt and it will revisit your relationship.
As for the rest, I'm glad he is saying such wonderful things.
The pull of hopefulness for our marriages is strong, as it should be.
I wish you the best.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."