Not so much as "trying" to not focus on him as it is just focusing on you.....

It is a shift in focus...

It is part of living your life.

I have always said that "true" detachment is when you do something , not to induce a reaction, but regardless of the reaction...

I'm not looking for any great changes if what you are doing is working.

I just know that MLC'ers tend to NOT let you get too far away from them....

And part of the tactic is to pull you back when they feel you slipping away.

While I'm rambling, what I'm trying to get across ( and doing a terrible job) is that......

Don't let his madness spin you....