When he says 'equal' what he means is 'same'. Meaning same as him, same as what he thinks, same as what he wants, same as what he feels.
He does not want an equal partner. He wants a little Barbie doll that he can dress and pose as he likes, carry around with him and play his little pretend games. The doll has no wants, no thoughts or feelings, and no autonomy save those which he imparts to her.
THAT'S what he wants.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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