Hey, it's them or me (lice). And I will win this battle as well... My friends and pharmacist said not to panick and comb every night. That's my plan.
Bill, listen, I am not excited he said what he said. I am realistic. But I am also fair. His work schedule during his affair while being here, was not the same. He had 2-3 hours free every night MORE than what he has now. That is why, after he moved out, OW soon complained all she got from him was a phonecall in the morning and one in the evening... He had just gotten the promotion, 2 weeks after the move.
In his email he had a big paragraph about that. He said he WILL make sure he gets home 1-2 nights early and that his plan is to leave the evening job. IF we try. If not, he needs the money for CS and "has nothing else to do". I can see his point but I also reminded him he had told me last year he would be home early a few nights but didnt. He said, now he wants to do it and he will. He also said he is tired physically and needs to cut down on work anyway.
The time he "promises" is definitely not enough especially if he is again, not taking time off for us during a weekend etc. I will be alone.
I am not the kind of person that would cheat on him for revenge. Believe me. I am nothing like that.
He gave me more explanation about the affair yesterday. NOt adequate but nothing would be adequate I fear. He told exactly what the books say. The lust, infatuation, the new, the feeling of being "good" in her eyes etc etc. He said, NOW he knows how to NOT get where he would need to become available again for an affair, meaning he would focus on making our marriage good and strong. The words are there... K
