My only two boundaries set, I have let EVERYTHING under the radar for four months, so I was busting to do it for me. And it felt really good too!
Thinking about it, it was like Hs need to control seemed to have weakened a bit now, on average, so trying to set a boundary any earler just would not have worked. It felt like as it has been so long since I set one, I needed to remind H there were still boundaries.
I too can clearly see H modelling his parent in how he reacts, as do I.
