Thanks! Hope the series is helpful. I have the book too but find the audio tapes really seem to sink into my thick skull better.

I'm facing a challenge of being all emotional as I've realized I've started into my pms timeframe. frown
Actually some nice progress with H last night but hard to make myself see it that way since I am so emotional right now. (I am trying really hard to not let that pms-attitude leak into my treatment of H....gosh it is hard!)
Last night H spent some time alone with the kids after dinner while I was cleaning up the dishes. He thanked me for making dinner and said it was good. He came to bed about an hour earlier than he normally does!! (Could be a one time thing but still something different on his part!) He also got up on time and helped get the girls ready for school. He is not a morning person and normally I avoid talking to him in the morning because it used to always lead to fights. However he did talk to me a little bit this morning and the morning before - this is more talkative than he's been in the morning for years & years! Last night wasn't able to touch him as much but did rest my arm against his for awhile. It's a silly little thing but it makes me feel closer to him.

Still no relationship talk or idea what is in his head. On my end though I guess I've lost some weight because even people at work are starting to comment...not a bad thing. We are supposed to go to a wedding this weekend and I have a super-hot dress...want to look sexy in it!