Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

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I do feel much more detached from him. Its hard to say what I feel for him now. Maybe I just feel more like he is my friend...aggravating at time friend, but still a friend that I love more than the others. Honestly I think my heart is locked up so tight right now, that its hard to feel anything else at times!!

Hi Kissak,

Just passing by and this caught my eye. Trying to be a 'loving friend' is nothing more than self-deprectiation. What kind a 'friend' does these type of things that you'd want to keep around?

I felt the same way for a long long time. I felt, even tho I lost my W, I could still hold on to 'my best friend' of so long. Well, when more and more grief was thrown my way, I came to the realization I just pointed out above. I don't need 'friends' like that in my life and things have been on the up and up in that sense.

Point blank, as long as you feel the need to be that 'loving friend', you will NEVER detach, and your pains shall never cease.