Kidding,

Look man...

There is more than enough of the SAME advice here, that if you actually read it you would have the answers to the questions you ask.

I have enough responsibilities in my own life, I do not want and would question anyone who did, the responisibility of telling you exactly how to live your life. Even if you break it down as simply as one from column A or one from column B.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet