Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[mishka422]

That however, does make me sad. Because he is a good person who has just made bad choices in his life, and now he is paying for them.

Totally undertand. I still love my XH, but I know that he is not good for me, never will be again, and our M was really uhealthy as a whole.

I understand that, but now It's different. I cant say Im over my H.

So, what is different? Are you feeling more detached from H? More indifferent?

I didn't want to sound harsh at all in my earlier post, and I hope it didn't come off that way. I'm just concerned for anyone that holds on to a dead M where the WAS shows NO intention of growing and improving themselves. I think it breeds unhealthy attitudes and leads to unhappiness not only in the LBS but in their children.