Made the rounds in newcomers, need to catch up on the piecing folk - had to take a break and give my son a steam shower for his coughing and now it's after midnight.
W has arranged a special day for me tomorrow - men's package at a spa, which is kind of embarassing to say out loud, but I get a massage and a haircut so it can't be bad. Isn't she thoughtful?
W actually gave me a massage herself last night - first time she's done something like that for me since the bomb. She said tonight that she's aware of enjoying little things now, like our legs touching (I was sitting next to her on the bed). Things seem to be progressing daily.
C has told us both that it's time to "be" in this state for awhile - enjoy the status quo for now. She asked W why she didn't want to move back to the bedroom yet, and W listed a few things like I snore and that we seem to be cramped in the bed. i guess it's time to get a king-size. And see the doctor about snoring. She enjoys having the other bedroom as her space, where she can do whatever she wants.
Funny, much of this really doesn't seem like relationship stuff... and I know there's stuff to work on there, but perhaps just making some simple changes will make her more comfortable in coming back to the master...
Oh, also, we took a bath together last night - at her suggestion. That was another post-bomb first. Things are really going well!!
Goodnight y'all - got to get some sleep. I'll catch up with everyone over the weekend -
