Sorry to hear that boys and W are ill...Went through the same here for a couple of weeks (H and I) and it wasn't pleasant.
It is fantastic that your vacation went so well and that W as well as you are managing your communication skills well I still get giddy when I think about just how much your sitch has turned around.
If you get the chance there is a sitch I think you might be able to help out on : Another Newcomer
The gentleman concerned did manage to get W to Retrouvaille but it almost seems like she is using the stuff the learned there against him.
Hope everyone gets better soon and look forward to hearing about all the progress being made in your sitch when you get the chance
Hugz, Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi