You daughter wanted to do something with you and your wife said no...but other than that your wife is more than willing to let the kids decide when to see you.
And let me get this right...its going to take all your money you squirreled away to 'save' her from her lease? Ahhh hell you do that and she just might reward her white knight with a night of bliss...(someone slap me) No AYK don't she more than likely won't care. Stop trying to save her.
YOU ARE UNDER THE FALSE IMPRESSION THAT YOU CAN MAKE THIS GO AWAY.
YOU ARE UNDER THE FALSE IMPRESSION THAT YOU CAN TRICK HER.
YOU UNDER THE FALSE IMPRESSION THAT THERE IS SOME FAST WAY THROUGH THIS.
You can either focus and slow down or you can burn out and quit on this. You have found ONE OF THE BEST places to save your marriage, but in your current mind frame you're going to quit and think it was a waste of time...because you aren't doing it right. Your fault.
DBing is all about becoming a better person, not tricking your spouse into coming back to the marriage...that is actually a lot of luck involved with that...and skill you have learned.
There are too many DAMNED good people who are simply amazing, and IF/WHEN their spouses snap the f out of their little self absorbed MLC world are going to be blessed to have them in their life.
Get to work on getting better.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
