Kass...keep asking yourself what is best for YOU and not worry about what your H is thinking. My friend told me something the other day that made total sense. If I took exh back guaranteed in 10 years, 4 years, 2 months 3 weeks...whatever the same cycle will repeat as he has no clue how to maintain a relationship and when things get hard he gets angry and bails. He cannot maintain a good relationship with his children, most of his family, and friends. Its not just me.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!