This is going to sound awfull. I know how you are feeling right now and perhaps my timing is not good. Here goes anyway; this is probably the best thing that has happenned to you in a while. You will find happiness in time BBJ. I was telling K this yesterday. These people we called our spouses are not (perhaps were never) "good" people. I truly believe that. From the evidence you present (or have presented in the past) BBJ, there is no way that Dan should have the privilege of continuing his life with you by his side.
