Originally Posted By: Storm Rider
Letting go is also oh so easy to suggest for someone else to do too. Easy for all of us to jump on your thread saying its the best thing to do!


Storm,

I've been thinking about this....

Are you okay?

You sound bitter with this post.

Letting go absolutely needs to happen, and it is easy to just say it to another person without knowing all the details.

Everyone processes on their own time, and letting go is a natural, induvidual process for everyone.

Not all of us are on the same time schedule with that.

The hardest part of that is that we detach and let go in two parts.

One is with the brain, the other is the heart.

The heart is the hardest....How does one do that with love?

How do we get to a point where we let them go with love and see if they come back....

How do we take our focus off of saving the old relationship and start thinking about the possibility of a new one with them...

That is the questions we are all here striving for...

For me, it is doing the things I need to do and putting my faith in God.

Doesn't mean its easy though.....

Peace Storm....