If as a result of my 180's my WAW asks me why I have been so distant with her, what is an appropriate response?
"I've been real busy lately. I understand it would make me look like I'm distant. Is there something I could help you with?"
If she says no then you gotta go, if she says yes then really listen and if it's a request that is unacceptable say, "I have decided that I won't do things like that anymore." If you can honor her request just say, "I can handle that."
You end the conversation first.
You are very busy aren't you?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
