Oh BBJ, I'm so sorry. You can search for all the answers you want but I don't you're going to find them. There is no reasons in our rational minds as to why these things happen.
Just be there for your kids, be there for yourself and pray that Dan is going to be that involved, loving father for your kids that he sees he should be.
Don't get your expectations up, just keep on keeping on. One foot in front of the other, sista.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
