W can't break EA - not sure how to handle it

[Energizer Bunny]

I'm saying that Tristan is saying to her look I love you, I want this to work out if it can, let's talk to someone about it.

OM COULD be saying, don't listen to him, he's a jerk, he always tells you what to do, he doesn't care about you.

Hmmm...but he's not acting like that. Maybe OM is wrong about Tristan. Maybe I've been wrong about Tristan. I was just SO MAD....Maybe OM just cares about himself. Maybe I'VE BEEN WRONG. OMG. And I really do love Tristan....what should I do. I'll eat chocolate ice cream and cry all night, maybe I'll know tomorrow.

My mother says to listen to Tristan. Maybe she's right too. I've screwed everything up. I don't know what to do. Maybe it's too late. Maybe not. I'm confused.

This OM thing is crazy. I'm not happy. Maybe I can let go now. Maybe it will be okay. I just want someone to love me. This is crazy.

Okay....times 500 million....and that's without even being bipolar. ;P

Thank you for sharing some insight into the confused , conflucted mind of what some of our W's are probably going through. You're right. There is a "guy mindset" to stand up and take charge. Get your balls back as you say. From what I've seen though, that only seems to chase my W further away. That's exactly what you confirmed.

Thanks for your perepective!