Love it! Just been into my old bank and reactivated my old bank account in my old name and am in the process of transferring all my direct debits and stuff. Have phoned up my bank where our joint account exists and it seems I can remove my name without his signature so am in the process of doing that.
Phoned the pet insurance people and they were really nice and transferred the policy across for me. It involved me being a bit sneaky and phoning the vets to get numbers and stuff but it is all done.
So it is sorted. Severing the last links. It feels good...
Plus, he will have it on his credit that he hasn't cancelled it. I hold my hands up, I gave him ample opportunity. I don't see what else I could have done.