OH MY LORD.....that is my situation nearly identically.... how ever she is not quite that affectionate to me in the tough times right now......

I have been trying to live by DB because I believe in it but my W says I am on a roller coaster of emotions I am...so has far to many secrets and EOA and well as A's for my to trust so easily and without transparency, I am on a roller coaster.

But we get along so well....so confused....