My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[billclay18]

After telling her I wanted to go forward with D two nights ago she said on the phone that she couldn't talk about it. I complained that she won't talk about anything with me. She said I'll call you tonight or we can set another time. We hung up. I texted her and said I was going to bed and couldn't talk that night. Since then no communication except the email I sent to her (posted here yesterday) and a kid-focused phone call and brief f2f yesterday. Anyway, basically since our conversation two nights ago she has gone dark on me, not returning my communications. I have basically stopped communicating anyway based on advice here.

So in my mind I'm thinking of all the negative reasons why she's quiet. That of course causes me to think preemptive strike/offense. See how that works?

RSF,

I swear to God you are like a hyperactive kid in need of a dose of Ritalin.

Let me ask you...other than kid related contact, what the longest you've gone without any contact with your W since you've been here? You don't hear from her for 2 days and you think she's going dark? You think she's conjuring up her evil plan? In my book, no contact is better than bad contact...for both of you. Except for 2 emails from my W a couple of days ago I've no contact at all with her for a month and I feel great. I've removed myself from the drama...drama that I have no control of. Has it helped my sitch? No...but it's helped me.

BTW...I think it's hilarious that you're not a Red Sox fan or from Boston. My name's not Bill Clay either, just a character from a movie.