wow, when I read that I thought the same. He is trying to save face for her. I would not be suprised if he doesn't come around to you in the next week or so but said that to her to save face and keep her in the wings too.



Kalni is right in that nothing has changed for you since you decided to seperate... except you got your hope up.... I hope you dont' do that again. You are still in the same place you where a few weeks ago and a few days ago.

I hope that you will be more guarded with Dan and your heart in the furture regarding Dan. I really do thing it was a ploy for her benefit... that signals he is not ready.

He is lost and you keep trying to find him.

Your a great girl, you got great kids and your a worker bee. You are healthy and soon you will be happy. You deserve better and will receive better in future.

In the words of Kenny Rogers:

You got to know when to hold em
know when to fold em
know when to walk away
know when to run



Time to fold 'em and walk away.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too