Treat "your woman" like she's your teenage daughter.
Treat her immature behavior with boundaries. She's confused because she lacks direction, focus and goals. Boundaries are in place to define a direction (behavior) that is unacceptable. Each person has define that boundary.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.