Another thing I've been wondering. Why does a WAS say things like "you dont want me back, I'm not a good guy". or "you deserve better than me"

obviously if he meant that, he would think that his new woman deserves better than him too smile


Me: 36
H: 33
S1: 4
S2: 2
Together: 13 years
Married: 7 years
Bomb: May 09
Found out about affair: June 09
Moved out: June 09
He Filed: July 09
Moved in with OW: July 09