Just a thought here...

Since you seem to have like, 45 different councelors at your disposal....

Any chance you might take the oppurtunity to have some parenting time with them and the children ?

YOU have the chance to build new memories for them to have in the future.

So your memories of this sucked, dust off and give them a memory of how to fight.

Ever read about Ghandi?

And his non-violent approach, that was SILENT ?

You should.

The easy way is to walk away...

One doesn't fail when they lose, they fail when they quit....