Thanks Puppy. I had been doing such a great job of that when he was being a jerk smile After he'd talk to the boys, they would hand me the phone and I would just click 'end' without even checking to see if he was waiting to talk to me.

I guess its harder because he really is reminding me of the old H. Its too easy to be me around him. But I can do it. I will do it smile

So, I don't tell him that he is not my friend? I just let him realize it? He wants to come over on Saturday to talk through divorce stuff. I'm going to meet with my lawyer Friday and get prepared. Should I be doing this with him? Or should I just tell him that my lawyer and I will write something up and get it to him to review?

Thanks!


Me: 36
H: 33
S1: 4
S2: 2
Together: 13 years
Married: 7 years
Bomb: May 09
Found out about affair: June 09
Moved out: June 09
He Filed: July 09
Moved in with OW: July 09