Thanks Puppy. I had been doing such a great job of that when he was being a jerk After he'd talk to the boys, they would hand me the phone and I would just click 'end' without even checking to see if he was waiting to talk to me.
I guess its harder because he really is reminding me of the old H. Its too easy to be me around him. But I can do it. I will do it
So, I don't tell him that he is not my friend? I just let him realize it? He wants to come over on Saturday to talk through divorce stuff. I'm going to meet with my lawyer Friday and get prepared. Should I be doing this with him? Or should I just tell him that my lawyer and I will write something up and get it to him to review?
Thanks!
Me: 36 H: 33 S1: 4 S2: 2 Together: 13 years Married: 7 years Bomb: May 09 Found out about affair: June 09 Moved out: June 09 He Filed: July 09 Moved in with OW: July 09