Hi Bobby.. Just popping in here because I was looking for your sitch.. Just wanted to say that confusion is the one emotion of my H that has been consistent through all of this. If I had a dime for every "I dont know" that I heard from him.. well, it cover at least an hour of my lawyer's time Sometimes he says it 5 times in a row. However, while the right thing to do may be so clear to us, there is no way to make them see it. They have to see it on their own. In my case, I just hope he sees it before its too late.
Me: 36 H: 33 S1: 4 S2: 2 Together: 13 years Married: 7 years Bomb: May 09 Found out about affair: June 09 Moved out: June 09 He Filed: July 09 Moved in with OW: July 09
Sometimes he says it 5 times in a row. However, while the right thing to do may be so clear to us, there is no way to make them see it. They have to see it on their own. In my case, I just hope he sees it before its too late.