Oh, a few other notes:

1) It was entirely obvious looking at pillows and such that H and I had been sharing the big bed.

2) My anniversary ccard is prominently displayed in the clean, organized kitchen.

3) My artwork is back up on the walls.

4) H hugs me and is affectionate with me.

5) There's a picture of me up in kidlet's new room and some pics of OW are conspicuously missing.

It's pretty impossible for the in-laws to miss what's going on.

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

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